October 8, 2024 : Let them go, stop allowing them to hurt you.

HIIIIII! I'm feeling amazing today, which means you are feeling amazing today, and that makes me so happy! We have finally released 95% of those low vibrations and negative energies we allocated with this past trip. I'm so thankful and grateful to the universe, my girls, and those in my life, and you as well. I'm very grateful we are on this journey together and that you are still growing and learning to achieve your authentic self. My body is literally vibrating with abundant energy!! Today I woke up extremely sleepy, and slow, I didn't want to go to the gym and just sleep in and or read my book( online), I felt no strength to even continue this life I've started, and that was genuinely scary looking back on it. Luckily your girl said “ Girl get up and go” and I did; It's a powerful thought for myself and probably surprising to old Grace, who always gave in to not progressing her life. I'm so proud that I continuously kept and keep pushing myself to continue growing, and not stay in the past. I'm also so grateful that I am able to share this wonderful achievement with everyone. After working out, eating something healthy but was also craving, saying what I was grateful for, and still sticking to my new routines and habits, a truly  genuine smile was brought to my face that i had thought diminished, there has been back to back pleasantries and happenings that have kept this smile on my face, and I am so grateful for them and to have noticed it. I want to communicate about a topic I've been going through, and that is: Letting Go. It is extremely important to Let Go, whether its material, hair, emotions, stress, relationships, jobs, etc. I especially want to talk about relationships, blood, love, and friendships; If they are not serving you, or bringing you benefits( time, love, money, or attention), or even just low vibrations are constant with them. LET THEM GO. They don't deserve you, if they aren't even willing to be there for you, to care for you, to show you respect, and to especially uplift and support you. Yes, you love them, or yall have known each other for a long time, or that is even your literal parent;  if they aren't willing to be there and reciprocate the same energy and care as you, they are just hurting you in the long run, they are thinking and caring for themselves, and when it comes down to it, they could not have the capacity to include you on their journey. I always say “ right person, wrong time; If they are meant for me they will come back to me”. You don't always have to do a  full cut off, it can be as simple as the both of you are not at the same level right now, or frequency/vibrations if you will. A great tell sign is if you constantly feel drained, or you are in a good mood but when they come around you and  feel your mood completely drop, maybe even get negative or insecure, or if you can recognize how one-sided your relationship is it is highly possible you are in a relationship that is not serving you( I say it is one). For example, you are always giving, whether that's material, emotional, or verbal( ex. advice), and you receive far less, taking it even further is you receiving something and feeling extreme enjoyment from something so small because it's so uncommon. That is unfortunately an unhealthy relationship that is no longer serving you, yes you should give with the intention of not receiving back, but that's limited to certain situations. For instance: you don't mind paying for some of y’alls meals as you can see them struggling, but then they constantly expect you to pay or they stop even trying to pay. That can happen after constantly giving; simply because you allowed it to happen. With that being said, If you finally place that boundary and tell them “ hey I noticed that you expect me to pay, anytime we eat somewhere” or “ Hey, I don't appreciate that you don't take the intuitive to pay for our meals or even yourself.”, If they hear and understand you and change, that's great and a relationship that could still serve you, as long as you set and keep boundaries. But if they start arguing and getting defensive, or even try arguing the case of “ you know I don't have the money for this”, then you simply say then if you're not willing to change, I can't continue this relationship. As much as it might seem “silly” for such a “silly” reason to end a relationship, it's only “silly” to you because you don't have the boundaries up, and you don't realize the depth in which they are using you and manipulating/gaslighting you into thinking that it's not a problem and that it is a “silly” reason. There can be many day to day actions or even words that those close to us, can be affecting us in a negative way, and we don't realize. When you clue in and realize that you feel hurt, insecure, or angry from someone's words, I really recommend implementing, telling them how that made you feel and to stop it. That's how you will know who needs to be in your life and who doesn't. To end this off, try to pay attention to how others affect you, really pay attention to what words or actions evoke a strong negative emotion out of you, it's a way to clue in to what you personally need to work on as it can be you reflecting how you feel for yourself from others, or that what is being said or done should be stopped immediately. Nobody should control you but yourself, you shouldn't allow others to have your power, nor should you be following other people’s time and schedule. You are a Goddess/God. You are your own Boss. You are worthy and deserve respect. You especially do not need to hold on to anything that isn't serving/resonating/supporting you. Also if you are refusing to let go because you are afraid, don't want to restart “all over again”, or simply don't want to be lonely… and I say this with love… WHY ARE YOU AFRAID OF YOURSELF.  WHY ARE YOU ALLOWING OTHERS TO TELL YOU YOUR EMOTIONS, FEELINGS, AND OPINIONS DON'T MATTER. Why are you allowing others to hurt you… please ask those questions to yourself, if any of this resonates with you. I can help you realize, but it takes braving the unknown and change to see the light again. You have to trust and love yourself, because no one will do that for you. You will not truly love others if you do not love yourself. No one will truly love you if you don't truly love yourself.

Question of the day

What is one thing that always makes you laugh?

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My answer: My brothers, I can always count on them to make me laugh or even giggle a little.